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  1. Our Purpose Is Not A Mystery

    Wednesday, March 6, 2019


    It is Ash Wednesday, the start of Lent, and my traditional Catholic upbringing has me feeling reflective, contemplative, and introspective. I listened to an episode of one of the podcasts I have in regular rotation, and this passage from "The Next Right Thing" slowed down my heart, welled up my eyes, and had me exhale in deep recognition of it's universal truth.

    "In the meantime, let’s remember this together. The goal of our lives, isn’t to be the most productive humans we can possibly be. The goal, the aim, is union with God and connection with each other. Our hearts beat for the kingdom, to join God in the restoration and renewal of all things. Because we are not people who believe this world will disappear and be irrelevant. We are people who believe the good, creative, life-giving work we do everyday can actually make a difference. We’re not trying to change the world -- Jesus already did that. Instead, we are joining him with our unique place, gifting, and personalities to bring hope and healing into the quiet, broken, chaotic, small, beautiful corners of our everyday lives."

    Take or leave the God stuff if it's not your bag (I certainly skim right over it), but the heart of this passage bears our shared human truth. Humans are made for connection. Brene Brown has the data points to back up that fact. And the small, daily acts of love, kindness, and consideration we perform make up our lives. In their accumulation, they make a difference. YOU make a difference. And that last sentence sums up so completely why you make a difference.

    "...to bring hope and healing into the quiet, broken, chaotic, small, beautiful corners of our everyday lives."

    That passage inspired me to forward it to a few of my friends that I knew would appreciate it. It also moved to me to send a word or two of encouragement and love to some people I knew needed to hear it. Those loved ones were of course women and mothers who are immersed in life-giving work every minute of the day -- in service to children of their own, to students, to significant others, to passions and causes that shape their lives. Women who give me so much hope and encouragement when I am feeling overwhelmed and broken.

    Take a moment today and remember your gifts, your talents, your light. Then share it with a friend, a stranger, a human in need of some light. Because who you are, where you are, and what you have is enough to make a difference. No hustle required.

  2. This is a Sentimental Post

    Thursday, August 2, 2018

    Our Tiny House
    I have to admit I wasn't looking forward to this year's summer break from school. I feared I was in for 2 1/2 months of constant bickering between my boys. I haven't loved tiny house living either. But the Lord works in mysterious ways and I find myself full of absolute gratitude for the summer the boys and I have had.


  3. New Year's Day 2014

    Wednesday, January 1, 2014

    The snow is falling softly and the house is quiet as my baby boy tries to nap. I spent last night trying to recall how I celebrated the ringing in of a new years past as my baby slept and the Mister helped our athletes sweat in 2014 at the gym.


  4. Season's Greetings & Gratitude

    Monday, December 2, 2013

    Memories of Marion Street, Halloween, and Best Pals
    I LOVE CHRISTMAS!! One of my favorite parts of the season has ALWAYS been THE TREE. I decorated the family tree nearly every year growing up. I love the process of unwrapping each ornament, recalling the memories attached to it, and finding the perfect spot for each one on the tree.

  5. Reflections of a Year

    Thursday, December 24, 2009


    My dear friend said 2009 would be the year of joy. She was somehow clairvoyant. 2009 graced me with many blessings. Those many moments of joy would not have been possible without all of you -- my amazing friends and family that inspire me daily. I hope the holidays find all of you counting your own blessings. I count you among mine, and I hope that 2010 beings much more laughter than tears, more hopes than fears, and many unexpected joys. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

  6. Intrastate Running -- The Results Show

    Sunday, November 22, 2009

    Well, hello there!! Here it is, a few days after completing the Ragnar Relay -- Florida Edition, and I can say confidently that I would do it all again. It was, in two words, freaking amazing! I'll do my best to capture the highlights of how it all went down, at least from the perspective of Van 1...Hold on to your hats, kids!

    Friday, November 20

    7 AM
    Here it is: game time. At Daphne's house, members of Van 1 for Twisted Blister fuel up with bacon, egg, and cheese bagel sandwiches. I don't know if it is the hour of the day, but damn, these sammies taste something wonderful. As does the coffee. Already I am diggin' our support crewmember, Erik, for firing up the oven and getting these sammies started.

    8 AM
    We're on the road to the start of the relay in Tarpon Springs, FL, which is about an hour north of St. Pete. Don't Nicole and I look so happy?

    Maybe we only look happy because of Jake's entertaining reading of the race rules from the race bible, or maybe it's just the sight of Erik's driving outfit...

    9 AM
    We arrive at Fred H. Howard Park in Tarpon Springs, just as the first runners of the 9 AM start time teams take off. We're feelin' jumpy and excited as we pile out of the van and wait for the arrival of the rest of Team Twisted Blister. When they arrive, our team gets checked in, receives our runner and van numbers (we're team #38). And I get to work on decorating Van 2:


    Minutes to 10 AM
    Before our first runner hits Leg 1, we take a moment to capture all of Team Twister Blister -- fresh, awake, and feelin' lively.

    Team Twisted Blister
    Back row: Scott, Jake, Bryan, Brian, Mike, and Duffy.

    Front row: Nicole, Sara, Daphne, moi, Meredith, and Britt.

    Moments after this shot, Sara headed up to the start line for last minute instructions from the Race Staff ("No pooping along the course. Ever."), then started Leg 1 of our 36-legs long relay. Whoa, Nelly. This sh*t has really started, and goes a little something like this:

    Our van follows each of our runners, usually stopping at the midway point of each leg to check on the runner and provide water, if needed. This day started out slightly overcast, but the clouds have burned off. While there is a slight breeze in the air, it is still a rather warm day, especially with the sun directly on you. Over the course of 6 legs (with me being Runner #4), we wind our way inland from Tarpon Springs. I ran my first leg of 5.8 miles at about a 10 min/mile clip, and considering my lack of running up until this day, I feel very good about that pace. I hope it holds up. At Exchange #6, we hand the baton, which is a slap bracelet (FOR REAL), to Van 2.

    At Exchange #6, Van 1 realizes that we're pretty close to Nicole and Jake's house, and that we have quite a bit of time to burn while Van 2 is doin' their thang for Team Twisted Blister. So, we roll on over their house for showers, pizza, and a movie. Seriously. It feels fantastic to rinse off the grime, and catch some rest. We're only 1/3 of the way there, folks.

    8-ish PM
    Van 1 joins Van 2 at Exchange #12. It is d-a-r-k, yo. In the back roads of Central-ish Florida. We're at a teeny tiny state park, a gabillion vans and vehicles are jammed all up along the access road, and there are S'mores.

    [Side note: there is no way anyone would lose any pounds on this relay because we seriously ate almost the whole time we were not running. Unless you're one of those freaks that decides the Ultra Running version of this relay would be more fun (i.e., 6-man teams, versus 12-man teams like us, and DOUBLE the total mileage), you're not going to have trouble keeping up with the calories you burn.]

    9-ish PM
    It's time for Van 1 to start their night runs. Better have the safety gear on...

    Headlamps, blinking butt lights, and safety vests are required on all persons not in the van at night. Fortunately, we are allowed to have a cyclist alongside our runners at night, so I was not alone when I ran my 5.1 miles along backwoods county routes with tractor trailer trucks zooming by at 55+ mph. One real peach of a driver felt it was necessary to pass on the left AT A RUNNER EXCHANGE POINT as a relay van slowed to pull over and off the road. Yeah, we love your redneck pickup truck, too, ya prick. Sorry, I'm still a little miffed about that one.

    Saturday, November 21
    12 AM
    I finish my leg in about 51 minutes, staying on track with my earlier pace. Once I get back in the van, I pretty much couch out. I am tired and I have little energy, so I drift in and out of consciousness, and I don't think I ever really fall asleep during the night. I do remember hearing about Nicole's tumble over the rumble strips of a bridge during her run. She escaped with a some scratched up palms, a big bruise on her knee, and maybe a little wounded pride, but it was dark out there, man. As Jake would say repeatedly, "It's hell out there! You see it out there? It is HELL."

    2 AM
    Britt, the last runner for our van, finished her leg, and we're 2/3 of the way done with Ragnar 2009. I, by the way, am still in my sweaty, smelly, running clothes and am passed out on my van bench. Erik and Tim, our second driver, take us to Exchange #18 where there is open space outside to lay down a tarp and catch some zzzzz-s before Van 2 finishes their legs. Too bad the park sprinklers are running, there is a high dew point, and there are roosters crowing in the background. Good thing I am still in the van, trying to find a comfortable sleeping position underneath my bathrobe, which is acting as a blanket.

    6:30 AM
    Rise and shine Van 1!!! It is time to get moving and get running! I know you're all bright-eyed AND bushy-tailed...



    The sun is rising, and Van 2 had some adventures in the night. A runner got off course during one of the legs, and there was some backtracking to get back to the relay course. The last runner in the van, Mike, ran at "dog speed" through Cracktown during his leg, leaving his safety biker in the dust. The beach cruiser we used had a couple of broken spokes already, and Brian had to fix a broken chain in Cracktown before rolling into Exchange #18 about 5-10 minutes behind Mike, after Mike already handed off the baton to Sara. Brian and Mike tell us all about it...


    Because we didn't see Van 2 roll into the exchange point before Mike, the race volunteer had to shout our team number several times before we realized Mike arrived and was ready to hand off the baton. Sara sprinted to the exchange point and took off on her leg. Fortunately there was enough sunlight that safety gear was no longer required on the course.

    7:30 AM
    Bacon, egg, and cheese time at Dunkin' Donuts!! Oh, heavenly coffee, too!!


    10 AM
    For Van 1, these are our final legs of the Ragnar. It is motivation enough to know that once I finish my leg, I am done for the rest of the weekend! I am so excited that my last leg is short, too -- only 2.7 miles. I set a goal of finishing it in 25 minutes. Tooooo bad I catch EVERY red light at the HUGE intersections of traffic I have to cross, which adds an extra 3 or so minutes to my time. I finish strong, though, and I think I could have run even more mileage.


    12 PM
    Exchange #30. Van 1 is D-O-N-E. Britt brought it home, and Brian took off with the baton. Van 2 will bring us to the finish line in Daytona. Let's review the damage...

    Daphne's blistered heel.

    My blistered toes.

    A stop at McDonald's and a mini-mart for beer give us our post-race rewards. And also put the runners to sleep on the way to Daytona.

    2 PM
    Checked-in to our hotel rooms, showered, and on our (at least) 2nd beer. Van 2 is still truckin' toward the finish line, while we survey the scene.

    4:30 PM
    Jacob's 5-man Ultra team crosses the finish line. This amazing team was a man short and started an hour later than Team Twisted Blister. They ran continuously through the night, with barely a blink of shut-eye for any of them. In a total time of 26 hours, 38 minutes, and 48 seconds, their team finished in 19th place overall, out of a field of 105. I'm so proud to see them finish SO strong!


    Team Off Constantly
    Tim, Erin, Jacob, Pat, and Loren

    Notice the awesome race medals -- bottle opener included!!

    6:30 PM
    All of us join Mike, the final runner for Team Twisted Blister, to run with him across the finish line. Team Twisted Blister finished in 53rd place with a time of 32 hours, 7 minutes, 52 seconds. Amazing!!


    That was pretty much the end of our night. I caught up with Jacob and his team, to hear how their experience went, and to give an account of our adventures across the state. On Sunday, everyone headed home.

    Final Notes
    I had an amazing time with my team during this relay, especially my van-mates. We had fun and cheered each other along to the finish. I very much liked the team aspect of this race, and I would love it if this were not my last relay. And to put a cherry on top of it all, Team Twisted Blister reached and EXCEEDED our fundraising goal of $2,000 for The Kenya Education Fund. With your help, we completely funded one student's 4-year education. Thank you to everyone for your support and generous donations! Team Twisted Blister really could not achieved anything without all of you.



  7. Intrastate Running - Prelude

    Thursday, November 19, 2009

    Hi y'all. I am FREAKING. OUT. Tonight we load up the relay vans, in preparation for the Ragnar Relay - Florida edition. Tomorrow morning at 10 AM, Team Twisted Blister hits the road running. We start in Tarpon Springs, FL and finish in Daytona, FL, a distance of 203 miles. I will run a total of 13.6 miles over the course of 3 legs and about 30 hours. Part of my anxiety stems from the fact that I have not been able to train in the way I wanted or needed. In early September, in midst of my exuberance at starting a new season of training and running, I came down with a significant set of shin splints. Besides a few 5K runs here and there, and a few 3-4 miles long runs every now and again, I have not been running as much as needed to prepare for this race. So, I'm feeling a little worried.

    I am also feeling really excited! My body feels ready to run, and to run far -- like all the waiting and resting has geared my body up for an explosion of endurance. Let's just hope that explosion doesn't cause me to implode at the finish line. I am also excited about finally having all 12 members of our team members together, cheering each other on in what is most certain to be a great adventure filled with many moments of hilarity and comic relief. Additionally, I am comforted by the fact that I am running a total of only 13.6 miles, and not 30 or 40 miles like the 6-person Ultra teams (ahem, Jacob), or all 203 miles by myself, like one crazy Dude.

    In the end, I know Team Twisted Blister physically will make it to the finish line in Daytona, and I am already most grateful to the dozens of our friends and family that have contributed to our fundraising campaign for The Kenya Education Fund. I am humbled by the outpouring of generosity from all of our donors, as well as the encouragement everyone has given us as we prepared for this relay. It would not be possible for Team Twisted Blister to reach the finish line without all of your support. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, and those of my teammates!

    Sticks in a bundle are unbreakable. ~Kenyan Proverb

  8. The Fall Food Fest

    Sunday, November 15, 2009

    Food. It is what makes my world go round. More precisely, it is what connects my world. It nourishes, it excites. For the 4th year running, I had my annual potluck fall food fest. It started in 2006 as a housewarming where I unveiled my hand-decorated wood kitchen table to a group of five close girlfriends. My kitchen table has the words "To eat, and to drink, and to be merry" scripted around its circumference. That is pretty much the mantra of Fall Food Fest, which celebrates the nostalgia of autumns past in the North -- apples, cinnamon, pies, stews, comfort food. From such small beginnings, the celebration has expanded to more than 30 people attending each year, filling my backyard and my home with gloriously executed recipes.

    I promised some friends and family that this year I would take photos. I broke my promise. May my words be enough to satisfy. The weather cooperated completely, and the night was cool and perfectly clear. As usual, the tasty beverages of fall -- wine, cider, pumpkin beer -- were downstairs, outside. The fire pit was a blaze of freshly felled oak from Kathryn's yard. A mellow soundtrack drifted across the yard from stereo perched in the windows in my living room. Along the walk, two tables with candles housed all cold dishes. As guests arrived, they covered the table with pumpkin pie, pumpkin cookies, pumpkin cranberry bars, pumpkin cheese dip, pumpkin butter dip, apple chocolate chip pie, guacamole, spicy mexican dip, and more. Inside, on all available surfaces, hot dishes were placed -- macaroni and cheese, stuffed mushrooms, Cincinnati chili dip, vegetable casserole, spinach dip, turkey chili, butternut squash soup, shrimp stew, and sweet potato crisp. Not one dish went untouched or unmaimed. We all did some serious damage to all that was available.

    This year's party petered out a little after 10 PM, as several folks had just recently returned to town and were settling back in. Some folks even arrived back into town that night, and drove straight to the Fest!! They won the macaroni and cheese casserole for their efforts. Everyone went home with favors: little brown gift bags filled with Reese's pieces, candy corn, and Smarties. Compared to last year, things were a little more mellow this year, but better organized. One, I did not have the flu, and I was running on all cylinders (I was even able to taste the full flavor of the food!). Two, I had more tables outside, which improved the traffic flow. And three, there were fewer people able to come. Clean up, however, was a snap, and my friend Katie and I were amazed. Other than the remaining fall leaf decorations, and altered furniture arrangements in my apartment, it seemed as if a party never happened -- no food on the floor, no dishes piled in the sink, and hardly a leftover!

    Half the fun of having the Food Fest is that each year is different, with different dishes, but every year has treated me to great laughs, great food, and wonderful friends. Next year, I will work on the ambient lighting. It was a little difficult to see what the dishes were on the outside table, making that first bite a bit of an adventure. Food allergies have no place at this party! I love what my little Fall Food Fest has turned into -- a night of conversation and culinary delights with friends new and old. Thank you everyone that brings a dish to share, and enthusiastically partakes in all the dishes available. I could not ask to sit by a fire, on a cool Florida evening, with any folks finer than all of you. Until next year, keep perfecting those wonderful recipes!

  9. Mermaids, Coral, and Moonlight

    Sunday, November 8, 2009

    Sometimes, I have the best job in the world. Because the fall U.S. Coral Task Force Meeting is always in one of the jurisdictions (i.e., NOT D.C.), I was in Puerto Rico last week. To me, attending this meeting is always a double-edged sword -- I get to go on an all-expense-paid trip to an exotic locale, buuuut I have to listen to the same sh*t, different day. Basically, it's two days of people telling the Fed, State, and Territorial officials what we all already know. Corals are dying. Yep, you heard it here. AND EVERYWHERE. It boils down to humans misusing our available natural resources. We overfish the fish, which turns the ecosystem topsy turvy, upsetting the balance. We strip the land for strip malls, farms, and condos, which sends more sediments and contaminants into the watershed and into the ocean. We crash our boats into the reefs and pulverize the habitat. The problem is US. And lack of funding. And cooperation. And not putting words and lip service INTO ACTION.

    So this time, I was in San Juan. I never see anything other than San Juan. My third time to the island, and I only saw the Caribe Hilton. I would have seen more if I didn't pop over to St. Croix between workshops and the business meeting.


    A side note here, and a VERY prejudiced one at that. Puerto Rico is, well, Puerto Rico. And Puerto Ricans are very proud. I never ever expect anything to go as planned in Puerto Rico. Except the dirty martinis. Best dirties of my life in that place. But I digress. Just a few examples before I get to my most recent experience: in Puerto Rico, a conference room with electricity and a projection screen ACTUALLY means a pop-up canopy tent and 12 plastic chairs on a brick patio. With no electricity. 8 AM actually means 9:30 AM. Driving actually means whatever the hell you want it to mean. No directionals, no speed limit, no passing lane, no rules -- WWF, No Holds Barred. And flying to St. Croix at 3:30 PM actually means flying to St. Croix at 5 PM on a completely different airline than the one you booked.

    On Saturday afternoon, after the morning workshop and a lovely lunch of plantain-battered fried chicken, beans, and rice with a hefty rum drink, I went back to the San Juan airport to fly to St. Croix, where my friends Cindy and Ross live. Cape Air already called to let me know I was bumped to the 4:30 PM flight, so when I arrived at the airport at 3 PM, I felt I was good to go for whatever trouble might arise (as to be expected in Puerto Rico). The nice woman at the Cape Air counter told me, once I wheeled up there, that the Cape Air flight had been cancelled, however, I was booked on the American Eagle flight at 5 PM. All I had to do was check in at the American Eagle counter...on the other end of the terminal.

    OK. Wheel, wheel, wheel...all the way over to AE. I can't be issued my AE ticket, says the effeminate check-in staff member. What? Cape Air told me I was all set. Nay nay. No piece of paper from Cape Air, no ticket from AE. I am sent back to the Cape Air counter. Wheel, wheel, wheel...Cape Air says I should be all set. OH BLAH BLAH BLAH!! Use the phone, lady!! After one hour, much ado, and only one more trip back to the opposite end of the terminal, I am finally issued a ticket. I enter the world's longest security line, in San Juan airport, with only 30 minutes before my mini-craft starts boarding. Oh how I tried to not looked pissed or tap my toes...1 out of 2 is good, right?

    I make it over to St. Croix without more trouble. And my bag even makes it, which was questionable after the Cape Air ground crew hacked the system to get my bag on to the AE flight for free. Oh the trust I put in that groundscrewman...[If it's not a word, it is to me now.] Ross picked me up, then we picked up Cindy, and then we headed to their apartment that overlooks the bay at Salt River. Freaking gorgeous!! This was Halloween night, and the moon was mostly full, reflecting off the sea, and illuminating all below, leaving shadows. The big party, however, was the next night, with better music at Norma's, in the rainforest. So this night, the three of us chilled out on rum and cokes, leftovers, and catching up.

    On Sunday, we lazed about in the morning, then finally motivated to head down to the dive shop where Ross works as a dive master. We picked up some dive gear and tanks, and made our way to Cane Bay for a shore dive. As we made our way along the coast, we could tell there was a decent swell working, but we weren't sure how it would affect a dive. Fortunately (unfortunately?), we ran into a fellow diver, who told us it wasn't worth our time -- no visibility, a complete sandstorm. Boo, hiss. And back to the dive shop we went to drop off the gear and tanks.

    Plan B: hike to the tide pools at Annaly Bay via the Trumbull Trail , which starts at Carambola Resort, just west of Cane Bay. The hike is amazing -- through the treeline and tall grasses, down to a rocky beach. Because of the swell, the waves were crashing into the bay and it was beautiful.




    After the trail, we hit the grocery store for dinner supplies. We made burgers before getting ready to whoop it up at Norma's. Norma's feels like it is deep in the jungle. Mostly because no roads on St. Croix go in a straight line, and it was dark out. Except for the full moon. Spooky!! I was dressed as a cat with a cat mask, fishnets, and black tank top. I went for simple because a) it had to fit in my luggage, and b) it was pretty warm at the cluuub. Cindy and Ross were dressed as a mermaid, complete with tail, and an evil Neptune/Poseidon. I feel I did one helluva job on Ross's make up. Stellar, even.



    There was dancing and half-naked (and one fully-naked) people. Ridiculous costumes, interesting costumes, half-assed get-ups, and many standers-by. In the end, Cindy and Ross ended up winning best costume for a couple! Fifty bucks, baby! After sweating off our costumes and downing enough beers to be tired, we headed home for the night with memories of good music, good people, and interesting characters...

    Monday was pretty laid back. I was happy to just be with friends, and we didn't really get very far with our day. We hit the beach at Cane Bay for a little bit before I got packed up and ready to go. We had dinner at the Brew Pub in Christiansted before Cindy dropped me at the airport. I got there early, just in case there were any ticketing issues similar to the one I experienced on my way down from San Juan. Fortunately, there were none. Because apparently, I was the only passenger. I sat alone in the terminal. As the departure time loomed, I asked the TSA dude whether the flight was still happening. Just then, the ground crew popped in the terminal and said "Private charter?" Bewildering enough, I was indeed the ONLY passenger on the 10-person puddle jumper prop plane back to San Juan. Holy cajoli!! And what a beautiful night to fly. Full moonlight -- I could see the ripples on the sea, the cruise ships moving between ports with their deck lights all aglow, and the receeding lights of the homes on each of the small islands. It was an enjoyable 40 minutes in the air, and I had no worries about my bag. Once I got through the first customs desk, my bag was the only one waiting for me at the deserted baggage claim in the international arrivals terminal. Yes, my international flight from U.S. territory to U.S. territory. Whatever. It's Puerto Rico!!

    Annnnd back to the Caribe Hilton for the rest of the task force meeting. If you want more info on what went down there, you can check it all out here.

    I left for the Caribbean on a hectic Friday afternoon, and after the final morning session of the meeting the following Thursday, I was ready to return home. I have more than enough work at the office to keep me realing, and I have a Fall Food Fest to prepare for. Stay tuned for that entry...In the meantime, know this: Puerto Rico never runs on time or as planned. St. Croix is the better of the U.S. Virgin Islands (St. John is allegedly the best). A handle of Cruzan rum is worth every cent (and then some) of its $9 cost. The Caribe Hilton makes a mean dirty martini (with blue cheese-stuffed olives!!), but they WILL charge an arm and a leg (and you can't blame it on the exchange rate). They only charge an arm, however, during happy hour at Morton's. Fifty-five people registered for a workshop will be reported as the number that actually attended, even if only 20 people did attend said workshop in this little place we call reality. There's got to be more to Puerto Rico than dirty San Juan.

  10. Backyard Tourist

    Friday, October 23, 2009


    So I’m totally procrastinating on a GREAT many things by updating my blog, but goodness, it is just so much more exciting recapping these last few weeks! And I feel like life is whooooshing by, without even the slightest chance of recognizing just how great it is RIGHT NOW. The wheel in the sky keeps on turning, and it will be my turn to experience some of life’s rain clouds eventually, so I want to soak up the sun while it is shining.

    Last weekend, a dear friend of mine came into town for a visit. There is nothing I love more than visitors. [I am not even being sarcastic!!!] It is a chance to show off my great town and to act like a tourist myself.


    Karin flew in on Saturday, and after getting her settled in, we took off for lunch at Diner 437. Everything on the menu looks phenomenal. The first time I went there, another friend and I shared a couple of dishes – the Honey Roasted Vegetables Sandwich and the LBT (Lobster, Bacon, and Tomato) Sandwich. Fantastic taste sensation!! And the fries I think have crack in them. I’m not a huge fry fan, but these things, I eat like they are going out of style. They rival the garlic parmesan fries over at The Parkshore Grill. Good thing I already ate today, otherwise I would be drooling right now! Anyway, on this trip I settled on Roasted Chicken Breast Sandwich, which was another delicious score. Karin had the Seared Tuna Club Sandwich, but ruined it by having the tuna cooked medium rare. Oh Karin. You have some things to learn about good fish. Numero uno is not overcooking it. But I digress. I always forget about this place – it opened relatively recently – and I really think I need to make my way through the rest of the menu!


    Because I went to the U2 concert the night before, and just returned from a week out on the West Coast, the rest of the afternoon was pretty chill. It included a nap, some laundry, and a trip to Target. [It can’t all be exciting!!]

    Good food should always be followed up with more good food. That evening we motored over the bridge to Tampa to Luigi’s where Jacob, Karin, and I had a fantastic dinner. I pass by Luigi’s frequently during my inter-zip code travels and it always looks like it might be good. Thankfully, Luigi’s recently got a good write up in the Tampa Tribune, which confirmed my hunch. When I got inside, I loved it – lots of booths, with cozy comfort lighting. Not too dim, and not too bright. Karin and I ordered a bottle of pinot noir and zeroed in on the menu, which has all the favorites – pizza, pasta, antipasto…Yum is the word! The pre-order bread and dipping sauce was so enticing, I was almost stuffed with bread before the meal began. Almost stuffed. Jacob and I housed The Italian Way pizza, while Karin scarfed down the cheese ravioli (which has SHRIMP in it). We even had leftovers, but only a few nibbles that we HAD to save.

    We closed out our night at a well-worn South Tampa favorite, The Dubliner. And Shipyard's Pumpkin Ale is back in season -- oh happy pint!!!
    The next morning, Karin and I enjoyed a relaxed wake-up pace. A little sleeping in, a little Sex and the City on the TV, and a little cup of joe before gearing up for breakfast and a day at the beach. Once the two of us finally woke all the way up and were ready to face the public, we headed over to Dave's Restaurant. My favorite neighborhood cash-only greasy spoon. For five bucks, you got yourself a cup of coffee and a bagel sandwich. I didn't say you got served super fast, but who doesn't get happy once the bacon arrives??

    Fueled up and feelin' beachy, Karin and I headed for Treasure Island on a what was one helluva a glorious day -- a perfect advertisement for why Florida rocks. The air was balmy, but not overbearing. The sun was shining without a cloud in the sky, and the water was perfectly refreshing -- not too hot, and not too frigid. As Goldilocks would say, it was "just right." And my God, did the wildlife put on a show for us! Pelicans, terns, and seagulls diving for bait fish swimming in the surf. A pod of playful dolphins jumping and skimming their way south, within what felt like arms' reach of the shoreline. Other "wildlife" included skimpy-shorted older men doing calisthenics down the beach. Always a sight to behold. It was, in short, a perfect beach day. We read trashy magazines, walked down the beach, cooled off in the surf, and lounged in the sun. It prepped us oh-so-well for a crazy night out on the town...

    ...or not. In reality, Karin and I cleaned up after the beach, and took our time getting down to a favorite restaurant (Backfin Blue) in an oft-forgotten part of town (Gulfport). That poor, beleaguered fish, Grouper, was the fresh catch of the day, and I could not resist ordering it encrusted in macadamia nuts! Karin had her grouper topped with crabmeat, asparagus, and HOLLANDAISE. I had a long internal debate about which grouper dish to order, and we decided to split the difference. We both came out winners, and followed our winning entrees up with a winning dessert -- Key Lime Pie. SO good -- one of the best I've had in recent memory.

    After dinner, we kept our mellow evening going with a movie on the couch. The next day, I took Karin to her parents, where she would spend the rest of her time in Florida. Her visit was so fun because not only did I get to catch up with a dear friend, I got to jaunt around town to some of my favorite, less frequently visited places. Even though I live within minutes of the beach, I rarely get out there for the day. All the everyday comings and goings seem to prevent most weekends from shaping up into one as great as this. So thank you Karin, for providing an opportunity for me to slow down, smell the roses, and be a tourist in my own backyard. I feel like I caught my breath for a moment, and I hope you did, too.

  11. I'll Go Crazy

    Thursday, October 15, 2009

    Let me tell you about one of the best concert experiences of my life. U2 is my favorite band. I developed an unhealthy obsession with them in 1996. I know, I’m a late bloomer. The band had been around for over 15 years by then. If I had been more involved in the music scene at age 8, I would have loved them at Joshua Tree, just like the rest of America. Regardless, U2 was probably my first love. Well, BONO was my first love, and Lordy, he still has it.

    I first tried to see U2 live my freshman year of college. I bought tickets to the Toronto show of the PopMart Tour. My high school friend agreed to go with me, then bailed on me! She was not up for the adventure of getting across the state of New York and the Canadian border to get to the show. Unfortunately, I couldn’t find anyone else up for the adventure, and I still have the unused tickets. Dude, if I couldn’t go – no one else was going either! So I didn’t sell them. I held out hope until the bitter end that I would still be able to go. Fast forward to the Elevation Tour. I persuaded my brother and his then-fiancée to go to the Philadelphia show. In short, it was AMAZING. Bono had the crowd in the palm of his hand. I still remember the hush as U2 closed out the show with “With or Without You.”

    Now, I had another chance to see U2, right here in my own metro area at Raymond James Stadium. The media hyped up the anticipation with an expected crowd of 70,000 and massive traffic delays. I took a half day from work, and my friend Kelly and I hopped in the car about 4 hours before the opening act, Muse, took the stage. We loaded up on beverages and Subway, and braced ourselves for “the suck” of traffic. The suck never arrived! We cruised all the way to the stadium, and coasted right into a parking spot. Kelly and I tailgated and listened to one of the most awful, yet awesome, covers of U2 songs ever – The Royal Philharmonic Orchestra Plays U2. The clarinet performs the melody to “I Still Haven’t Found What I’m Looking For”. Kelly and I laughed our asses off. We couldn’t get through an entire song – we would listen to each until we knew which song from the U2 catalogue it was, then moooove right along to the next.

    I should mention here that the outdoor temperature in Tampa on this night was about a gabillion degrees. As in SWELTERING. The coozies were barely keeping our beers cold. Sweat was dripping down my back. Sultry comes to mind.


    After what we felt was a sufficient amount of time with our cheap beer, Kelly and I mentally prepared for “the suck” of getting into the stadium where we had field tickets. That’s right, we had standing room on the football field – not seats. We figured we would be in the back, a million miles (or at least 70 yards) from Bono and the Boys. Well, I don’t know what was working for us, but we got within 10 yards of the stage.
    Bono and The Edge duke it out in 360.

    At a little after 7, Muse opened for U2. I was most pleasantly surprised by this band that appeared on the soundtrack for “Twilight”. [If you don’t know what that movie is, or what it’s based on, you have been living in a pop culture void and you are dead to me.] Muse freaking rocked! I actually did not want their set to end!


    The main act, as usual, took their sweet time about it. By this time, the floor space had filled in to sardine-like capacity and I was soaked through with sweat. The rest of the stadium was full up, too, breaking all attendance records for the stadium. See what can be accomplished when you take football out the equation?!?!


    U2 yet again rocked my world. Bono yet again had a crowd of tens of thousands in the palm of his hand. And the set list was one to drool over, with some songs that I know the band rarely performed in concert before, like “The Unforgettable Fire” and “MLK”. Check it out below.

    Breathe

    Get on Your Boots

    Mysterious Ways
    Beautiful Day

    I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For

    Stuck In A Moment

    No Line on the Horizon

    Magnificent

    Elevation
    Until The End of the World

    Unforgettable Fire

    City of Blinding Lights

    Vertigo

    I'll Go Crazy - Remix

    Sunday Bloody Sunday

    MLK
    Walk On

    One

    Where The Streets Have No Name


    Encore

    Ultraviolet

    With or Without You

    Moment of Surrender


    The only thing that could have made this better was if Bono had picked me out of the crowd and pulled me up on stage during “City of Blinding Lights” instead of some cute little boy. Whatevs. Next time!!!

  12. A U-Haul, a Rabbit, and a Bean

    Wednesday, September 2, 2009

    Road trips ROCK. I love them. Mom and Dad probably just read that statement and passed out. Road trips as a youngster in the Chevy Impala -- not so fun. For them, or for my two brothers and me squished in the back seat. Maybe because those early road trips were so....um, memorable (??)...road trips now are so fun. Sure the wheels just keep on turnin', but the rest stops, the conversations, and the destinations make it all a good time.

    So there we were, Amanda, Tami, and me. Shoving the last bit of stuff into Amanda's trusty Honda Accord, which was weighted down with a bike rack and a U-Haul trailer, ready to roll Amanda's ass up to her new home -- Chicago. The goodie bags filled with chocolate and other sugary sundries were also packed and ready. Let's GO, bee-atches!!

    But, let's drop off the cable company's wireless router first. Ok, NOW, we can go. It's 3 PM, and we're bidding adieu to St. Petersburg by heading north up I-275 and I-75. Amanda's pet rabbit, Jackson (Jack), will not cooperate by riding in her jerry-rigged litter box. She will ride like the queen she is by riding...in the back window.


    Rock on, little bunny. Just don't pee all over if you get excited. We made a couple of pit stops on our way to our first checkpoint in Tennesee. We had some Subway for dinner, and some McDonald's for fourth meal at 1 AM. Throughout the 12-hour trek, we traded off driving duties. I got the rainy, dark, a traffic-filled shift through Atlanta. Perfect, when a trailer is attached to the back of the sedan. I only made one wrong turn, and I blame the GPS for faulty instructions. I kept right, like you said, lady, and I should have kept from turning off the main highway.

    We reached Almaville, TN at 2:30 AM on Friday, and Amanda's dear old friend Jeannie was waiting up for us. I think I remember saying hello before passing out on the couch for the night. The next thing I remember is waking up to the smell of coffee, which is one of the BEST scents in the world! It was a beautiful morning -- sun shining and fluffy clouds, with a hummingbird flitting by the front window -- and we would be spending the next 24 hours here before continuing on to Chicago on Saturday.

    Rob and Jeannie are gracious hosts, and they showed the 3 of us around. I love summer in the north! It is so green and the colors so vivid. And the grass!! The real grass!! Again, I was having a little foot orgy in my bare feet on the grass. Right there -- real grass. One of my Top 5 Favorite Things. Feet down.

    Later that day, as evening drew close, and after more friends from Cincinnati arrived, we drove to Arrington Vineyards for a picnic dinner. The location is beautiful! On a hillside overlooking the vineyards, you can picnic at the tables there as long as you buy a bottle of wine. And buy we did. The whites went perfectly with our fried chicken dinner and potato salad. We languished as we sipped the last of our bottles and watched the sun set.

    After such a restful and enjoyable evening, it was hard to get up the next morning with the knowledge that we had to hit the road. We got a little bit of a late start because we stayed to chat and enjoy a homemade breakfast. Once we were on the road, it was cornfields and horse farms for a very long way through the last sliver of Tennessee and a good chunk of Kentucky. In Louisville, we stopped for "lunch" at White Castle.


    OK, here's the thing. I've heard about White Castle before. I had never been there, but I heard the raves, and hell, I saw Harold and Kumar. I thought I was missing something, and I thought that THIS was my moment to experience WHITE. CASTLE.

    I was...underwhelmed. Steamed on a bed of onions? Pretty much equals a bland tasting piece of square meat on a tiny bun. Oh well, you can't tell me I didn't try.

    We forged on through Indiana, and then, made it to the threshold of Chicago. The tension was palpable. Amanda was at the wheel. I should say that the tension wasn't palpable because Amanda was at the wheel. It was because we were so close to Amanda's new home, and so far from her favorite home. That, and Amanda was at the wheel in an urban setting. SCAAARY!!!

    We arrived at Amanda's new lodgings in Hyde Park around 6:30. The unloading of the car and the trailer went relatively smoothly and quickly. Thanks mostly due to the brawn that showed up -- Josh, Mr. Wallace, and Mr. Shadduck -- we moved boxes up 3 flights of wooden stairs and through tight spaces with relative ease. Amanda and I, after a lovely deep dish pizza made in a wood-fired oven, began setting up her new apartment. Our adrenaline took us all the way to 12:30 AM.

    The next morning, we took our time starting our day before returning the U-Haul. Once returned, we made our way to the Navy Pier for some sightseeing. My local resident friend, Erik, came to meet us for lunch and a walk around Millennium Park, where we saw....the Bean. That infamous piece of tourist art that provides no end of amusement and distorted reflections. I'll let you enjoy our day, just as we did, in photos:




    I loved every moment of my time in Chicago, and I know Amanda is going to take to her new home like a duck to water. Sure, winter is going to blow frozen monkey chunks, but that's only for 8 months. The rest of the time -- it will be gravy. I definitely am going back to visit because 24 hours was not long enough. There is still so much more to do and see. Wrigley Field! Hot dogs! Oprah? Maybe not, but I still haven't wandered the waterfront drunk in the middle of the night, and I still haven't been in a parade singing "Twist and Shout." Next time, Amanda, next time. We're doing the town up right.


  13. Again, I meant to post this earlier, but August really got a away from me. I'm playing catch up now.

    Back in early August, I got a chance to play with the cool kids on Lake Seminole, which is right here in Pinellas County. After picking up supplies (subs, drinks) and gassing up the boat, we loaded into the boat and motored away from the ramp. The lake is pretty big, as lakes outside of Finger Lakes and Great Lakes country go, and is separated into two parts. The back lake area is smaller, more residential, and shallower. You could stand up, with your head out of water, if you didn't mind the mucky goodness of the lake bed sucking at your feet. There may have been gators in there, too, but I didn't see them (and I didn't look too hard).

    Dan was the first one up on the wakeboard once we got all situated in the boat. He showed the rest of us rookies how it was done. [Note to my cousin Kyra: I am pretty sure we were following all the rules included in your how-to manual.] Jen, a wakeboarding novice, if not virgin, was up next -- and in only a few tries. Making it look so easy, Jacob thought he would have no problem. Not so. Thus, the wakeboard was benched for a bit, and the tube was inflated. I jumped on board the tube and held on for dear life. This isn't your Daddy taking you around the lake for a nice ride! Tubing is akin to the mechanical bull -- you're hoping to get your 8 seconds! I held my own, but the tube, my fellow tube rider, and the lake all left their mark on me. I nearly lost my suit in there somewhere, too. Note to self: put on the rashguard prior to rash-giving and suit-taking activities.

    The tube was put away as we motored back toward the larger, main lake. The wakeboard was brought back out for another go. Carl gave his most valiant efforts, but never quite got the brass ring. I gave it my best shot, and nearly made it to upright (SO CLOSE); however, I never quite made it either. I blame my vice grip on the tube (and subsequent tossing from the tube) for reducing my strength. I just didn't have any oomph left. Jacob finally got upright and moved forward a few feet before getting dunked again. We just left him for dead and took off for home after that...


    Seriously?! That last part would never happen. We all made it home alive, and gator-bite free. I definitely was sore for a couple of days after our playtime on the lake, but it was worth it. It was one helluva a beautiful day in Florida and a great day to be out on the water.

  14. America's Oldest City

    Tuesday, August 11, 2009

    I meant to make this post back in June. Clearly, it just didn't happen. Now, I've got some time, and I'm making up for it! Enjoy this post, as well as the next couple of ones to come...


    Another friend turns 30. Thank God they are all doing it before me!! It softens the blow, and kind of lulls me into thinking I am already 30. I've got a couple months more to go before I hit that milestone (landmine?). Anyway, 30 is a pretty big deal to us humans -- it feels like an appropriate moment to look back and forward, and to share with your favorite people -- so at the close of May, Karin and I converged upon Katie in Gainesville, the sleepy town that is home to the Florida Gators. If you weren't a fan of the Gators before going to Gainesville (like me), you're less of a fan once you see the Gator mailboxes and orange and blue gas stations. It's not like there is much going on in G'ville, other than the most AWESOME pizza parlor and junk emporium I have EVER been to in my life. Satchel's is not only awesome atmosphere, but an awesome blend of kitschy eclectica. I seriously wish St. Pete had the same kind of place because then, my town might be close to being a 10. Clearly, there was no other choice than to hit Satchel's for dinner before going out on the town (for the first time that weekend). Satchel's did not disappoint.

    After dropping off the Satchel's leftovers at Casa de Katie, we headed out to downtown G'ville where we met up with more kindred folk to continue the celebration. At the first bar, there was a band that was completely, and surprisingly, amazing (think NPR All-Songs-Considered fare, and then smile because it is good fare). I was impressed, and energized. As the set ended, Katie downed her midnight birthday shot, then our merry group ambled onto to The Top. On our way, we negotiated a free birthday weiner for Katie from a sidewalk vendor of processed meats. Apparently, processed meats do not rise to the top of Katie's favorites list, and the bite we egged her to take, was not a delicious bite. [And here is where Katie and I differ. I love me some street vendor hot dogs, sausages, kielbasa, what have you, especially late at night after a few cheaply priced beers. What doesn't taste better? Well, OTHER than a hot dog at the ball park?!?]

    I hit my wall at The Top. I had driven up from St. Pete straight after working a full day, and I was wiped. I was falling asleep on my bar stool, and I couldn't concentrate enough to hear the conversation over the background din. Yet, somehow, we made it to last call before calling it a night.


    Hey, good thing the neighbor in the apartment downstairs knew that we had gone out for a late night!! Because what says "Good Morning" like blasting the effing Bee Gees' "Night Fever" at 7:51 AM?!!?? And better yet, let's repeat the song, then follow it up with John Travolta's theme song from "Saturday Night Fever"?!? Disco usually doesn't make me so cranky, but at 8 AM, it's a different story. I ended up falling back asleep, only to awake distraught from the throes of a thoroughly upsetting dream. Good thing I had my best girls and a day at the beach to brighten my mood.

    After a quick breakfast, and packing up supplies, Katie, Karin, and I hit the back roads of northern Florida, headed for the beaches of St. Augustine, FL, the oldest city in the U.S. Juan Ponce de Leon set foot there in 1518 (I'm pretty sure), where he discovered The Fountain of Youth (and we'll get to that later). In about 2 hours, the three of us were bathing beauties on the shores of the Atlantic Ocean. The water temperature is perfect this time of year. Cold enough to be a bit a of a struggle, if you just wade in, but wonderfully refreshing once you're in it, basking in the sun and hot air. St. Augustine is a beautiful beach. It's pretty flat and firm, so you can ride bikes along it, and in places, even drive your car right up on the beach and park for the day. We kept it simple with beach towels, sarongs, and a cooler.


    We got our fill of the beach, then headed over to our hotel to check in. We scored a pretty great deal at the Quality Inn, where we got ready for dinner, drinks, and dessert. We ate a New Orleans flavored meal at Harry's, then headed over to The Tini Martini for some potent drinks and gifts.

    After gifts, giggling, and gabbing, we felt it was time for some ice cream. We grabbed the last few scoops from Whetstone Ice Cream. Ice cream in a waffle cone is better than birthday cake, if you ask me. I'm not the birthday girl (yet), but I think Katie felt the same. We drifted off to bed knowing it was our last night in St. Augustine, and the next day would be filled with travel home; however, the long goodbye would not begin before we tasted the water from the Fountain of Youth.

    My God. Where do I begin? We are all tourists at some point or another, and we all love a good attraction. The Fountain of Youth has to be the most GLORIOUSLY tacky spectacle I have ever seen; this INCLUDES South Carolina's way over-hyped South of the Border. [The only other destination I have been to that might rival it -- Spongeorama in Tarpon Springs. Oh yeah, you read right.] We arrived at the Fountain of Youth via streets lined with Spanish moss-encrusted trees and a lovely arched sign.


    With an entrance like that, the Fountain of Youth has GOT to be something great, right? You have NO idea...Armed with our coupons for $1 off the admission price, we paid the fee, and entered the site of Ponce de Leon's miraculous discovery. Peacocks abound on the property, which rolls right up to the Intracoastal Waterway.


    I hadn't seen this many peacocks since my days living in Miami, when I would see them toodling around Coconut Grove in the mornings during my runs. They are beautiful...and loud, sqawking little birds. I kept a safe distance in case one should decide to start pecking at me. Thank you Mom for having me watch Alfred Hitchcock's The Birds at such a young age. I forever fear the pecking of birds.

    I know, you're all just WAITING for the big reveal -- the great, and mighty Fountain of Youth. Let me tell you, it's beyond any sort of tacky you can imagine. You enter, and this is what you see:

    Oh yeah. Plastic manikins, plastic flowers, painted murals, Christmas lights, and the lovely fountain itself is about 2 feet wide with some nasty tasting, very minerally water. I got asked if I was 23 at a bar the other night, and I still get carded for alcohol, so maybe the water really does have restorative powers. Maybe.

    After tasting the water of youth, us gals tooled around the rest of the property until it got a little too hot (and a little buggy). We checked out the uber-tacky gift shop, and debated over magnets, shot glasses, and perhaps purchasing some bottle youth water.

    As always, I'll end my post about a (not-so-) far-off place by saying that I wish I had more time there. It never seems that a city opens itself up to you until you spend at least a week there; and it that time it either lulls you into thinking you've only scratched the surface (and you need to stay longer to discover all its secrets), or you've had enough and it's time to discover new place to explore. St. Augustine made me feel the former, and I hope I'll take another road trip - this time to become more than just an acquaintance with this old city.

  15. Hontoon Island State Park

    Friday, June 5, 2009



    At the end of April, it's time to camp again! This time, across the state, close to New Smyrna/Daytona Beaches. I took a half day from work, picked up Jacob, and we made our way to the campground, just outside Deland, FL, where we met up with Kathryn, Marti, and Leo. Hontoon Island State Park is unique. You load up a ferry (i.e., pontoon boat) with all your camping gear. The ferry takes you across the river to Hontoon Island, where you unload all your gear. Then, you load your gear into a passenger van, which takes you to your campsite...and you unload all your gear, again. The five of us had two campsites right next to each other. All the sites are shaded by trees, and there is a group campsite tucked in at the back of the island. There are a few small cabins that can be rented, too. Because of the drought, NO open fires are allowed. Good thing we brought firewood with us. And sticks for marshmallows. And makings for S'mores. Because we planned to cook in the fire, we trucked all of our dinner makings out to the picnic area with the grills, and bought charcoal at the park store. The walk from the campsite to the picnic area, which is where the ferry dropped us all off, is about a 10 minute leisurely walk along a sandy path. We made chicken wrapped in foil with veggies, and after a long day of work and traffic through Orlando on I-4, it tasted so good. Our first night at "camp" was off to a pretty good start. Once we packed up dinner, we headed back to camp. Without a campfire, there isn't much to do. The mosquitoes were on attack, so our conversation was cut short as we all headed to the safety of our tents. We were of the minority, though, as the rest of camp consisted of more boisterous folks that kept the lanterns lit past 10, and kept talking as if they were the only ones on the grounds. Marti and I heard all about this guy's experience with Australian catering. He said the food they provided was good, but it was different from American food. All he wanted was a burger, and the burgers they have tasted different. Not bad, just different, so he didn't eat as much and lost weight. I know -- THRILLING conversation, right? I kind of wanted to smack the guy, not only for preventing blissful sleep from taking me away, but for being such an AMERICAN!! With the wisdom of the band 'Til Tuesday, I say: hush, hush...voices carry. Keep it down now!

    The next day, I tried to sleep in. This is always hard when the sun starts streaming through the screens of my tent, and the rest of camp starts waking up to make breakfast. Plus, my make-shift sleeping pad of foam egg-crate and my sleeping bag did my body no favors. But Kathryn made her amazing oatmeal on her portable camp burner, and Marti made her amazing coffee in her French press, and I began to forget about my aches and pains. Breakfast is my favorite meal, any time, any place, and it is made all the better when you wake up from a night's rest in your tent. Because there is no swimming allowed at Hontoon Island (gators galore!), we decided to make a trip to Blue Springs State Park, which is a lazy spring-fed swimming hole. You can float down the river in a tube, then jump from the swimming platform into the river. The water temperature stays about the same -- 72 degrees F -- all year because it is spring fed. We all ate our lunch after a quick trip around the park (for recon purposes). Then, Jacob and I took Leo floating a couple of times, but I think he's more of an underwater swimmer. I don't think he loved floating as much as he loved diving under the water closer to the entry stairs and the spring itself. Regardless, the day was HOT and the water felt great, once you dunked yourself.


    [Sidebar: How OLD is this photo I took from the state park website? I feel like I stepped back to 1983. That's all I had to say.]

    Back at camp, we got some ice cream, then I took a nap. Amazing how floating and a little walking can make one so tired! Before I knew it, it was time for dinner. We hiked back out to the picnic area to stoke up the grill and get our hot dog on. It was a beautiful sunset and we saw a big ol' gator push off the shore and go out to find some dinner. I don't think gators instill enough fear in me. I'm not going to go walking up within arm's reach of one today, or tomorrow, but I think I would consider going within the reach of a 10 foot pole. To be honest, those animals can MOVE, and that's probably not the safest mentality for me to have. Clearly, I digress...

    Darkness brought us back to camp, and while one tries to read, the effort doesn't last long. Without a campfire, camping is not quite the same, and I don't have quite the same longevity to my camping days. I fell asleep without much trouble on this night, although I was sad to fall asleep with the knowledge that this was my last night at camp.

    In the morning, we packed up our gear, loaded it into the van, then onto the ferry, and finally into our cars. We sad a good bye to the park, and to each other, then loaded into our vehicles and headed home. Jacob and I took the scenic backroads route across the state. We stopped in Brooksville for lunch, which is about an hour north of Tampa, and a pretty sleepy old Florida town.

    As usual, it was great to get outside and out of St. Pete for a weekend. I always wish this weekend trips could last longer. It was definitely one of the last weekends one could camp comfortably in Florida, as May signals the start of the humid, hot, air conditioning season. Maybe next season, I'll be able to put my tent to use more than twice. Baby steps...baby steps. Until the next adventure...which is coming right up.